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	<title>Stepping Into Joy &#187; April 2012</title>
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		<title>How To Be Present During Your Divorce and Not To Project</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 19:29:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Staying in the day while going through a divorce is difficult. You know that life will never be as it once was, and you’re still unsure what the future holds. So, it is not uncommon to start projecting about what your future could possibly look like. I don&#8217;t know about you; but when I project ...]]></description>
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		<title>Are You Into Action or Into Thinking?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 19:25:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Having lunch with one of my girlfriends earlier this week, I was sharing some updates on areas of my life since the last time we saw each other.   We both have an interest in spirituality; so it is with joy that we enjoy sharing our faith journeys when we get together. Whatever the latest book ...]]></description>
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		<title>How To Build Boundaries with Family Members</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 19:21:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[self-confidence]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you sigh when you see that your caller id is from a family member and you know they are calling you to talk to you about your divorce? You know their heart is in the right spot; but the reality is that they are suffocating you emotionally. You may be asking yourself ‘how do ...]]></description>
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		<title>Give Me the Endurance to Get Through Today</title>
		<link>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/give-endurance-today/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 00:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Debbi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[April 2012]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;I can&#8217;t do it anymore&#8221; were the first words my friend stated when I answered the phone this week. There comes a time for many of us going through a divorce when you just want to throw in the towel, leave your life behind and go on a month long vacation. As appealing as it ...]]></description>
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		<title>How Do You Keep Going When You Feel Defeated?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Debbi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[April 2012]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[keep going]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[recovery process]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[the next right thing]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[So the pressure of the divorce recovery process is getting to you.  You may be waking up in the morning wondering how you can possibly get through another day. You are feeling powerless; you can&#8217;t think straight and are find you&#8217;re having a difficult time making basic decisions on what you need to do that ...]]></description>
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		<title>Discipline Is Remembering What You Want</title>
		<link>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/discipline-is-remembering-what-you-wan/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Apr 2012 11:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Debbi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[April 2012]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorced woman]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I believe that most people have an end goal of wanting an amicable divorce. Not just to keep the divorce cost down, but also to maintain a healthy relationship for the benefit of their children. What can occur is one, or both sides, of the party starting to get focused on the differences that they ...]]></description>
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		<title>What to Do When I Can’t Stop Obsessing About Tomorrow</title>
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		<comments>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/what-to-do-when-i-cant-stop-obsessing-about-tomorrow/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 00:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Debbi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you find your mind racing a mile a minute at the thought of having to discuss a situation with your Ex? Or perhaps you have anxiety when thinking about the next time you&#8217;ll both be in court? Being present in the moment can be difficult to do; especially when you have stressful events coming ...]]></description>
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		<title>What to Do When You’re Dividing Your Household Items</title>
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		<comments>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/what-to-do-when-youre-dividing-your-household-items/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2012 16:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Debbi</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[arguing]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[letting go]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.steppingintojoy.com/?p=549</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So you find yourself constantly arguing with your STBX; by the time a couple gets to divorce court they usually have become experts on knowing how to push just the right button to get under the other&#8217;s skin. It usually starts with a comment…or a roll of the eyes. For some, it becomes a game ...]]></description>
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		<title>Do You Want To Be Right, Or Do You Want to Be Happy?</title>
		<link>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/happy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/happy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 00:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Debbi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[April 2012]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Are you stuck in a bitter divorce fight? During divorce couples often get caught up with their perceived injustices of settlement negotiations.    The disdain that they personally have for each other usually just adds fuel to the fire when negotiating. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in being right that we don&#8217;t back up and ...]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do When You’re Ready To Give Up</title>
		<link>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/what-to-do-when-youre-ready-to-give-up/</link>
		<comments>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/what-to-do-when-youre-ready-to-give-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2012 00:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Debbi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[April 2012]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[don't give up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[moving on]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.steppingintojoy.com/?p=505</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You’re working hard at moving forward in your life; but you still feel like you&#8217;re not making any headway.  You’re at that spot where you’re frustrated; not sure what to do next, and just ready to give up. We&#8217;ve all been there at one time or another.  It&#8217;s called Life! It can be frustrating at ...]]></description>
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		<title>Are You Working On Your Priority?</title>
		<link>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/working-priority/</link>
		<comments>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/working-priority/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2012 00:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Debbi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[April 2012]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.steppingintojoy.com/?p=504</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[What do you want out of your life? There was a time in my life where I was all talk and no action.  I had BIG plans for myself; but never managed to make the time to achieve my goals.  It&#8217;s not that I wasn&#8217;t busy.  I was always working on some project.  But what ...]]></description>
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		<title>We Do! We Don’t Try.</title>
		<link>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/we-do-we-dont-try/</link>
		<comments>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/we-do-we-dont-try/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2012 00:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Debbi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[April 2012]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get it done]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[jedi]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.steppingintojoy.com/?p=503</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When I coach women who struggle with their new life after divorce I often hear &#8216;I&#8217;ll try&#8217;, after I give them a coaching suggestion.  I almost always respond with &#8220;We Do! We Don’t Try!&#8221;. This is my variation of that great quote from the Jedi Master Yoda &#8220;Do or do not; there is No Try&#8221;.  ...]]></description>
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		<title>Why Do I Ignore Doing What I Know I Need To Be Doing?</title>
		<link>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/why-do-i-ignore-what-i-know-i-need-to-be-doing/</link>
		<comments>http://www.steppingintojoy.com/why-do-i-ignore-what-i-know-i-need-to-be-doing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2012 06:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Debbi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[April 2012]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[avoiding]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[move into action]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[taking action]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tasks]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[What task should you be doing that you’re ignoring?  I’m not talking about every day little tasks, I&#8217;m talking about that BIG task that you’re consciously turning your attention away from wishing for it to just go away. We all, at times, turn our heads away from tasks that must be done. I had a ...]]></description>
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